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Thursday, April 21, 2011

How to Attract an Asian Female

Subcontinental women are widely-admired, be it for their conservative values, outspoken nature, hospitality, tanned skin, dark eyes, deep voices or sensuous curves. There are various reasons why you may have fallen for an MDF but snagging her is a completely different ball game.

A few tips which may help....

1. Don't act like an insensitive fool. For starters, the chick probably speaks better English than you. Guys often see a desi girl at a bar on Western soil, approach and find themselves talking slow and loudly like, “HI H-O-W’-S I-T G-O-I-N-G?” only to find out that the Asian girl that they’re into is actually very fluent in English. You may think that assuming that they can’t speak in English is an act made in good faith but it is actually very patronising.

2. Another common irk among Asian women is when guys assume that just because they’re of Asian roots, they’re already Indian or Pakistani. If you don’t want your date to get offended and leave you, you must first understand that their roots matter to them so saying that India and Sri Lanka is just the same does not only make you look uncultured, it’s also pretty insensitive.

3. Each culture has their own sets of “Dos and Don’ts' so if you really want to impress your MDF, do your research on what they do in her country of origin and not get things confused. Don't rush to display your newfound knowledge at every given opportunity. It sounds fetishistic and desparate.

4. Attracting Asian girls is really no rocket science, they’re pretty much like other girls, the only difference is that they’re of different descent and just like any other person, they would greatly appreciate it that you respect their traditions and views. As for physical tastes, it varies according to what the girl wants. As with all races, there are those who wants to stick with their own kind. It may seem unfair but just respect her decision and don’t take it as being racist, it’s just a matter of preference. Do remember 80% of Asians girls are open to dating you.

5. Generally, just be yourself around her and try to have good time but if all else still fails then it is time to move on. There’s no point in concentrating on someone who’s clearly not into you.


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